Posts Tagged ‘how to be popular’

Start something that will bring you attention in a good way not ruin your reputation. It can be a school achievement. Or try to fund raise or work for a charity and bring awareness of it into your school.(Breast cancer walk, Sudan Relief, etc.) Another good idea is to start your own business. Be creative [...]

Talk to people and socialize with them; don’t leave your friends though!
Talk to boys too, and exchange numbers.
If there is no popular clique, START YOUR OWN! Nothing better than being the head, especially if you’re nice, people will want to be your friend.
If the popular clique won’t let you in and is [...]

Seek opportunities to socialize. Even if it’s just walking from one class to another, find someone that has the same schedule as you do so that you can walk and talk. If you really feel like doing something will benefit you, ask a friend to do it with you.
Don’t try too hard. Don’t think [...]

Always be the life of the party. You always need to be fun, or you will be boring. Other people will think so too, and they won’t hang out with you. But careful with your drinks during party, keep them with you all the time.
Don’t boast too often This will get people quite annoyed [...]

Have self respect. People respect others if they respect themselves.Be cool always.
Sometimes, playing innocent helps. Let’s face it, being popular will definitely make you lots of new friends, but it will also probably lead to a few jealous stares. If a so-called “friend” makes a nasty comment, laugh it off, pretend that it wasn’t [...]

Admit that you have flaws, once you do that try to fix those. Laugh at yourself. Hey nobody’s perfect!
Be Nice. If you’re nice more and more people will like you and don’t act like your better than anyone. Being mean might get you popular, but with wrong group, and being known as mean girl [...]

Stick to your values and morals. That is what matters most. You may be a 15 minute celebrity, but it is better when you are respected for who you are. Keep it clean, get good grades, and help others, and then you will shine for the true you and not a shallow type. Be a [...]

Study hard if you want to be noticed. Being popular doesn’t mean being “stupid”. Participate in class, do your homework, and don’t be afraid to be known as a “smart” girl. Just be sure you leave plenty of time for social activities. Let people know that academics/sports are important to you, but are not your [...]

Develop relationships. As you begin to meet people, don’t just treat them as items on a checklist. Find out what they like to do, their interests, and learn about them as people. You’re trying to make friends, not just be known. Also, be sure to keep in touch with your old friends—you don’t want them [...]

Know what your body language is telling people. For instance, when you cross your arms your body language can give the impression, “Don’t bug me.” Another example is slouching - a sign that says, “I don’t feel I’m very important.” Positive body language is all about how you feel about yourself and how you make [...]